Falling in Love

There’s plenty of advice and rules around for getting a girl to fall in love with you. This is not about those rules and advice. This little article focuses on the basics that can be used to strengthen a girl’s feeling of love for you. Love can’t be forced. It has to take it’s course.
Things You’ll Need:

• Patience
• Kindness
• Respect
• Sincerity
• Honesty

Step 1
If you want a girl to fall in love with you, just make her the center of your respect and admiration. Treat her well and do things that you know will make her happy. A girl will most likely fall in love with a guy when she knows she is important to him. Make her smile, make her laugh, and show her that she can be happy with you. She’ll fall in love with you because she feels happy when with you and when thinking about you.

Step 2
Offer her your support and friendship. Falling in love is about offering her a shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to, and a friend to be there when she needs one most. A woman will find it hard to open herself up to a man who cannot be her friend. In order to fall in love, a woman needs someone who will listen to her fears and troubles and know that you’re being sincere. Remember, it’s not all about you. Letting go of your expectations will also help you relax, which will make you more appealing to a girl than if you are uptight and worried.

Step 3
Give her lots of attention and lavish her with love. If you want a woman to fall in love with you, you have to show her how much she means to you. Telling her how you feel is great, but showing her your love is the key. Kiss her often, cuddle her, and do sweet things for her like making dinner, giving her a massage, or buying flowers for no particular reason. When a woman knows how much she means to you, she feels secure and this increases the chance that she’ll fall in love with you.

Step 4
Show her that you’re a sincere and genuine man. A woman needs security to fall in love, just as anyone does, and if you show her that your feelings and intentions are real, she’ll be more likely to fall head over heels in love with you. A woman knows when someone is not being true…it’s called woman’s intuition. So, if she senses you’re not being genuine with her, she will not let you in. If you’re honest and real with the woman you care for, she’ll offer the same in return and love will blossom before you know it. Love is patient, kind, and honest…treat the woman you care about with respect and be true to her…she’ll love you for putting her feelings first and give you the same or more in return. Love thrives in the absence of pressure (in the form of neediness and clinginess).

Step 5
Give her space. This step can be looked at in many ways and can get distorted easily. It isn’t about playing hard-to-get. The point is to give the girl the control of what happens next. This step isn’t about ignoring her so SHE has to call you, or avoiding long conversations with her to torment her into loving you. Just allow her to live her life outside you. Allow her to see a movie without you. Allow her to be without you and she will then decide to love you on her own terms.
If you’re shy, you might end up giving her too much space. You still need to express your interest in her (flirt a little, and when the time is right, kiss her). Just don’t smother her. Give her some time to reflect on those moments and realise how awesome they were.

Further Tips:-

• Be yourself and don’t try to be someone else to make a woman fall in love with you…she’ll see through this and know you’re not being sincere…if she’s going to love you, it will be for the person you already are.
• You can’t make someone fall in love with you…so if it’s not there, don’t force it…love comes naturally.
• Don’t get angry if your partner hasn’t said “I love you” yet…love takes time and needs kind encouragement to flourish.
• Don’t be afraid to fall in love yourself…you can’t have someone fall in love with you if you are not the falling in love kind. . Love often starts with friendship and often comes with time, and in that time you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. This is the fun part! The only way this will work, though, is if you believe, on some level, that you are lovable and worth being around. It’s very difficult to fall in love with someone who thinks badly of themselves.

Once in love, your relationship has to be nurtured and respected. Love is only one part of a healthy relationship–the rest depends on effort and patience.

Now that you have got to the end of the article you might be thinking I knew all of that.  But now go back, take your time and truly ask yourself the questions:

• When was the last time I bought flowers for no reason for someone I care for or love?
• When was the last time I was there for some one who needed support?
• When was the last time I cried with laughter with some one I love?

If you can’t remember when, look in the mirror, ask yourself  who you could show your love to first and how could you express that?

Remember: The more you give out the more you will receive and it is never to late to say “I love you”.

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