How To Tell If A Guy’s Into You

Would you like to know if a guy likes you or is interested? Perhaps you noticed him when you were crossing at the lights, standing in a check-out queue or talking with a friend. Did he notice you? You think so, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you both looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with someone. Was he watching you as you socialised? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why is it so hard to read a guy?

We’ve put together five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happen, he is on the verge of asking you out:

1. He tells someone he’s interested
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you’re from. He is trying to act like he’s “just asking” but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He’s hoping it does.

2. The gives you the look
Was that him giving you THE look? He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even from across the room, “that look” says it all. It sweeps from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours and then lock in. Was that the beginning of a tentative smile? You think so!

3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He’s moving in to the ultimate question, which is: “Are you seeing anyone?” and he hopes the answer is “No.”  He would only ask this question if he wanted to go out with you. If he doesn’t ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.

4. He turns up unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you said you’d be  going and at what time. He may be embarrassed when he sees you. A sudden, “Oh, hi,” is his way of saying, “I don’t want to seem obvious, but I am very interested in you.” If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. EVERYONE likes you. . . so why wouldn’t he?
Is he interested? Will he like you too? When you are well liked and a happy and positive person, why wouldn’t he like you? Of course he does. He wants to get to know everything about you. If you don’t have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future plans, areas of your life that are not working and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won’t matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. Training and coaching do not.

So what do you have to gain? Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is how relationships begin.

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